Real Beauty Marriage in Islam

Your Life is a journey You’re on a journey. The journey is life. The destination is Paradise or Hell. The path you take on your journey will determine your destination. The length of your journey is not fixed; it will vary for each individual with some arriving at their destination in their youth whereas other will reach old age before they arrive. Yet one thing for certain is that everyone WILL arrive at their destination.

8 Things to Strengthen the Husband-Wife Relationship. According to the Quran, the purpose of marriage is to attain sukun (tranquility and peace), which can never be achieved through impulsive sexual fulfillment unless it is accompanied by mutual love, affection, caring, and sharing, which are all part and parcel of a fulfilling and productive marriage relationship. Islam, as we know it holistically from the sources, is a balanced way of looking at things.

Nice Story telling us what the wife do with her husband who is going to divorce and getting him change his mind completely. When I got home that night my wife served dinner. I held her hand and said, "I've got something to tell you." She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking about divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, "Why?"

[QUALITIES CONDUCIVE  TO A HAPPY CONJUGAL LIFE] [Good Lineage] The seventh quality is that the wife should be of good lineage, that is to say, she should come from a religious and righteous background, because she will bring up her daughters and sons. If she is not well bred, she will not be able to raise her children well. For that reason the Prophet* said, “Beware of the green dung  (khadra' al-diman). ”56   It was asked, “What is the green dung?” He said, “The beautiful woman with an evil origin.” 57  The Prophet* said, “Exercise care in choosing [wives] for your sperm, for a hereditary quality is wont to return.”“

[QUALITIES CONDUCIVE  TO A HAPPY CONJUGAL LIFE] [Piety] That she should be virtuous and religious is the most fundamental requisite, and to that end [special] care must be taken. For, if her religious principles are too weak to give her the strength to be virtuous and constant, 19 she will humiliate her husband, disgrace him among people, trouble his heart with jealousy, and thereby render his life miserable. Should he succumb to passion and jealousy, he would remain in trial and tribulation. Should he, on the other hand, follow the path of permissiveness, he would be apathetic toward his religion and honor and would be guilty of lacking zeal and pride. Also, if she is beautiful but corrupt,

[QUALITIES CONDUCIVE  TO A HAPPY CONJUGAL LIFE] There are eight qualities which render a conjugal life happy and which must be sought in the woman in order to assure the perpetuity of the marriage: piety , good character , beauty , a small dowry , ability to bear children , virginity , [good] lineage , and she should not be a close relative .